My husband and I decided to do some renovating in our house. When we started to design our basement he once again submitted the request to hang his deer heads. The larger than life, dusty morbid heads began to crush my ideal basement design. The request pulled me back in time remembering the days as a child that my family fed the deer and then to the reality of my husband’s extracurricular activities which included the excitement of the big hunt and killing them. I suppose this is truly an example of opposite sides of the pendulum. I have been able to separate our diverse stances on a deer’s life, but now, I am asked to look it directly in the eye and hang his trophy on the basement wall.
After getting past the abhorred idea, I began to embrace how I could once again honor both of our diverse ideas into one elegant design. I am a firm believer that just as in life opposites can extenuate and enhance designs. I decided to offset the poignant deer heads with crystal lamps, a transitional long table, and a contemporary mirror. These competing components created a stunning display that both my husband and I appreciate. It has become a focal point for guests and sparks quite a few interesting conversations. Incorporating opposites is a unique concept that is very important when contemplating design in both retail stores and homes. Individuals migrate towards the unique and carefully blending two distinctive styles can not only be intriguing, but also beautiful.
Almost 30 years of marriage has been quite a journey. It never seems to amaze me the things I learn about myself and others. What evolved from the meshing of our lives has changed the way I look at design and what is possible. When working on your next project, include the unexpected, think about opposites, and if need be, contact my husband . . . his “cool” design ideas are always unique!




